Changing lives and destinies

Article published in Millennium magazine

May 2021

Not long ago we introduced you to the famous image maker, psychologist and stylist Liliya MAYOROVA. Continuing to communicate with our heroine and talk on a variety of topics, we decided that her clients would best tell about Lilia’s work and achievements. We invite you to read the amazing story of a girl who was not afraid and turned to our expert for help. Read on for the story of not only external transformation, but also colossal internal transformation.

– Natasha, we congratulate you on the changes you have achieved and wish you even greater prosperity in the future. Tell your story. What was your transformation journey like? 

– I am a Christian, born in 1975. When I realized that I was unhappy, lonely and had still not experienced the joy of intimacy, I decided to turn to Lilia for help. This decision was not easy, but now I can say for sure that it was the most important thing in my life. My journey of transformation began with self-discovery. Not from external changes, but from working on your own inner world. This journey began with realizing myself as a woman and my role in this world. I now remember my first conversation with Lilia, when she asked me to name the traits that were inherent in me. And among them I highlighted - responsibility! I remember her commenting very emotionally that this was a masculine trait and asking the question again. At that moment I realized that I didn’t know myself at all as a woman.

– How difficult was it for you to break down inside, change stereotypes and your own views on life?

– You know, it was difficult. And sometimes very strongly, because I didn’t understand everything. I didn't realize the importance of change in my life. I thought what I was doing, what I was doing, how I was behaving was normal. I didn't look at myself correctly and was forced to face these realizations. I needed to cultivate new things in myself. It happened that Lilia would say something to me, but I didn’t seem to accept these words, I didn’t hear her. Some things even offended me and hurt me inside. And I believed that Lilya was to blame for this. And only over time I realized that she was breaking my negative traits for my good.

– Have you ever returned to the idea of your old life during the process of change?

“I didn’t understand everything, but I didn’t want to go back.” Everything Lilya said was so exciting! This was a new adventure, so I only wanted to move forward and explore my new life. And then I started hearing compliments from people, and I realized that changes had begun! Behind them, an even greater desire arose to move on into their happy, love-filled life.

– What emotions overwhelmed you when you first saw yourself in the mirror after the changes? How has your life changed?

“I don’t remember the day when I first looked at myself differently in the mirror. Lilya often gave tasks, one of which required me to look in the mirror for a long time. I had to appreciate my body and develop a love for it. I learned to look at men differently and find something good in everyone. I began to love people and accept them as they are. I learned to respect my dad and thank him for all his advice. I remember how surprised he was.

Of course, after the internal changes, external ones began. Lilya worked with me not only as a psychologist, but also as a stylist. We changed my wardrobe, clothing capsules for different seasons, changed the color and length of my hair. I dreamed of just such a stylist who would reveal me and the beauty of my appearance.

– We congratulate you once again! Your story is amazing. What dreams are you living today and what would you wish for other women?

– My heart today is filled with love and boundless gratitude. I am now building a relationship with a wonderful man. He loves me for who I am, sees in me the woman that Lilia Mayorova revealed. I dream of becoming a wife and mother, of realizing myself as a person.

I want to tell every woman: don’t be afraid of new adventures, don’t be afraid to overcome fears and insecurities. Don't be afraid to leave the past and move forward. It is wonderful to understand that you are whole and loved. I know for sure that God created every woman for beauty. The main thing is to discover this within yourself with the help of specialists, to settle and live with love, surrounding the world with it.

You know what you want All that's left is to act!

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